Grace Thompson
The Catholic Church in Singapore teaches that confession is an encounter with God's mercy, where one can be freed from their sins. The Sacrament of Reconciliation is the second plank that Catholics can rely on when they have strayed from their faith. During confession, individuals are expected to confess their mortal and venial sins, with penance assigned by the priest. This process is guided by an examination of conscience, which can be based on the Seven Capital Sins, the Ten Commandments, or the Seven Deadly Sins. It is encouraged to be honest and open during confession, and while it may be intimidating, God is believed to be forgiving.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Purpose | To seek forgiveness for your sins and reconcile with God |
| Who | A priest |
| Where | A church or chapel |
| When | Any time, but some parishes offer communal reconciliation services during Lent |
| Preparation | Spend time examining your conscience and reflecting on your sins |
| What to confess | Mortal sins and the number of times each was committed, and venial sins (recommended) |
| What to do | Begin with "In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. Forgive me, father, for I have sinned. It has been [duration] since my last confession and these are my sins..." |
| Penance | The priest assigns a penance, which may involve prayer or sacrifice |
| Act of Contrition | Pray the Act of Contrition, expressing sorrow for your sins |
| Absolution | Listen as the priest absolves you of your sins |
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What You'll Learn
Examination of conscience
First Commandment: "I am the Lord your God, you shall not have strange gods before Me."
- Have I denied God?
- Have I been ashamed of or denied my faith in front of others?
- Have I ridiculed the teachings or practices of the Church?
- Have I neglected my prayers?
- Have I used witchcraft, Wicca, or other Occult practices?
- Have I practiced superstitions such as fortune tellers, mediums, ouija boards, or tarot cards?
Second Commandment: "Do not take the name of the Lord in vain."
Do I use God's name carelessly, in anger, or in surprise?
Sixth & Ninth Commandments: "Do not commit adultery. Do not covet your neighbour's wife."
- Have I desired or done impure things?
- Have I helped make my parish community stronger and holier?
- Have I contributed to the support of the Church?
- Have I done penance by abstaining and fasting on obligatory days?
- Have I fasted before receiving communion?
Other Questions for Reflection:
- Did I attempt or consider suicide?
- Do I act violently towards others?
- Have I had thoughts of hatred toward another?
- Have I taken, abused, sold, or distributed illegal or prescription drugs?
- Do I neglect to take proper care of my body?
- Do I drink alcoholic beverages in excess?
- Am I cruel to animals?
- Do I act rudely, impolitely, or ridicule others?
- Have I been guilty of the sin of racism?
After examining your conscience, you can go to the confessional and celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Begin your confession with the sign of the cross and say, "In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. My last confession was _______ weeks (months, years) ago." Confess all your mortal sins and, if you wish, some of your venial sins. Listen to the priest's counsel and accept the penance assigned to you.
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Mortal and venial sins
Mortal sins are grave offenses that sever one's friendship with God, leading to eternal separation from Him in Hell. They destroy the life of grace in the soul and result in the loss of sanctifying grace. Mortal sins require three conditions to be met: the act must be a serious violation of God's law or a grave matter, the sinner must be fully aware that their actions are evil, and they must freely consent to committing the act. Examples of mortal sins include denying God, using God's name in vain, committing adultery, and taking one's own life. If one has committed a mortal sin, they must confess it during their next confession and perform the assigned penance.
Venial sins, on the other hand, are lesser offenses that injure but do not destroy one's relationship with God. They weaken the sinner's relationship with God and the charity in their heart. Venial sins do not require all three conditions of a mortal sin to be met. For example, the sinner may not have fully realized the gravity of their actions or may not have freely chosen to commit the sin. Venial sins are not as serious as mortal sins, but the Church still recommends their confession to receive sacramental grace and avoid slipping into mortal sins. Examples of venial sins include neglecting prayers, impolite behavior, and excessive eating or sleeping.
During confession, one must confess all mortal sins and the number of times each was committed. It is recommended to also confess venial sins, especially if one has no mortal sins to confess. The priest will then assign a penance, and the Act of Contrition is prayed. An example of the Act of Contrition is: "O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended You, and I detest all my sins because of Your just punishments, but most of all because they offend You, my God, who are all-good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of Your grace, to sin no more and to avoid the near occasion of sin."
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The Act of Contrition
> O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended You, and I detest all my sins because of Your just punishments, but most of all because they offend You, my God, who are all-good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of Your grace, to sin no more and to avoid the near occasion of sin.
Before reciting the Act of Contrition, one should take time to reflect on their sins and examine their conscience. This can be done through prayer and contemplation, considering the Ten Commandments or the Seven Deadly Sins as a guide. It is recommended to confess all mortal sins and, if desired, some venial sins as well. Mortal sins are those that are very serious, committed with full knowledge and freedom of will, while venial sins are less serious.
After confessing one's sins and receiving penance, one is invited to pray the Act of Contrition. This prayer is a crucial part of the Sacrament of Reconciliation, through which one receives forgiveness and mends their relationship with God and the Church.
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The priest's role
The priest will listen to the confession of sins, which should include all mortal sins, according to kind and number, and can also include some venial sins. If the penitent has no mortal sins, they should confess the venial sins they have committed since their last confession. If there is a mortal sin that has been confessed in the past, but not mentioned in the current confession, it can be mentioned again if the penitent is particularly sorry about it.
The priest will then absolve the penitent of their sins. The penitent is then truly forgiven by God. The priest will assign penance, which the penitent must complete. This will diminish the temporal punishment due to sins already forgiven. The penance may be a prayer of sorrow or Act of Contrition, such as the following:
> O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended you and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of heaven and the pains of hell. But most of all because I have offended you, my God, who are all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve with the help of your grace, to confess my sins, to do penance and to amend my life. Amen.
The priest may also read a passage from holy Scripture and offer counsel. If the penitent has any questions about the faith, how to grow in holiness, or whether something is a sin, they can ask the priest.
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Absolution and penance
The Sacrament of Reconciliation, or Penance, is a process that allows Catholics to mend their relationship with God and the Church. It is not just about confessing one's sins but also asking God for healing and empowerment.
Absolution
The priest absolves the penitent of their sins through the ministry of the Church. The priest lays their hands over the penitent's head, representing the Holy Spirit sanctifying them, and prays a prayer of absolution, asking God to grant forgiveness. This prayer is directed to God, and the priest asks for forgiveness on behalf of the Church. The penitent is then granted pardon and blessed in the name of the Holy Trinity.
Penance
Penance is the course of reparation prescribed by the priest after the penitent has confessed their sins. It is an act of sacrificial love, a prayer or sacrifice, that helps reform and reorient the soul. It is not a requirement for forgiveness, but it is important to complete it as it reflects a commitment to repentance and mending one's relationship with God. The penance may include abstaining and fasting on obligatory days, fasting before receiving communion, or being mindful of the poor.
After the penance is carried out, the penitent may be reconciled with the community through a prayer of absolution. This is often celebrated on Holy Thursday, allowing the newly reconciled to share in the liturgies of the Easter Triduum.
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Frequently asked questions
Confession, or the Sacrament of Reconciliation, is an encounter with God's mercy where one confesses their sins and is absolved of them.
You should spend time in quiet prayer and reflection, examining your conscience and taking stock of moments when you may have sinned. The 10 Commandments or the 7 Deadly Sins can be used as a framework.
Begin your confession with the sign of the cross and say, "In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. My last confession was __ weeks/months/years ago." Confess your mortal sins and the number of times each was committed, and then you may confess some of your venial sins. Listen to the priest for counsel and accept the penance assigned.
Penance is a prayer or sacrifice that helps to reform and reorient your soul. It is assigned by the priest and must be completed.
You can go for confession at churches such as the Church of St Mary of the Angels, Singapore. Some airports also have small chapels staffed by Catholic priests where you can receive the sacrament of confession quickly.
