Joshua Bennett
The Catholic Church recognizes marriages between two non-Catholic Christians, as well as marriages between non-Catholic Christians and Catholic Christians. However, in the latter case, consent from the diocesan bishop is required, and the Catholic spouse must promise to do everything in their power to raise their children as Catholics. If a Catholic marries a non-baptized person, the wedding is not considered a sacrament, and permission from the bishop is required for the marriage to be considered valid. While the Catholic Church does not require the non-Catholic spouse to convert, it emphasizes the challenges of interfaith marriages and encourages spouses to share the same faith.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Marriage in the Catholic Church | Valid Catholic marriage requires four elements: spouses must be free to marry, they must exchange consent, they must intend to marry for life and be open to children, and their consent must be given in the presence of two witnesses and a properly authorized Church minister |
| Mixed marriages | The Catholic Church recognizes marriages between two non-Catholic Christians, and marriages between Catholic Christians and non-Catholic Christians. In the latter case, consent from the diocesan bishop is required. |
| Non-sacramental marriages | Marriages between Catholics and non-Christians are non-sacramental but may still be valid in the eyes of the Church. |
| Marriage preparation | The Catholic Church provides classes several months before marriage to help participants inform their consent. |
| Marriage location | A Catholic wedding has to take place in a church. |
| Marriage to a non-Catholic | A Catholic marrying a non-Catholic does not have to agree to raise their children in the Catholic Church. |
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What You'll Learn
Marrying a non-Catholic
For a Catholic to marry a non-Catholic, the Catholic party must obtain permission from the diocese or the local ordinary. This is often referred to as a dispensation and is usually granted as long as the Catholic promises to remain faithful to the Catholic faith and raise their children as Catholics. The priest must secure this promise in good faith and meet with the couple to help them understand the spiritual importance of matrimony. Additionally, the non-Catholic party must be informed of the promises made by the Catholic party.
The Catholic Church tries to accommodate and bless mixed marriages, and it is common for a non-Catholic spouse's minister to be present at the wedding. However, according to canon law, only a priest or deacon may officiate at a Catholic wedding. Therefore, the non-Catholic minister can offer a few words but cannot officiate or preside over the ceremony. Mixed marriages in the Catholic Church are usually not a Mass to avoid the difficulty of some people being unable to receive the Eucharist.
While the Catholic Church allows mixed marriages, it is important to consider the potential challenges that may arise, especially when it comes to raising children in the Catholic faith. A 2015 Pew study showed that children with one Catholic and one non-Catholic parent were less likely to remain Catholic in adulthood than children with two Catholic parents. Therefore, Catholics considering marriage with a non-Catholic should carefully weigh the potential challenges and be prepared to prioritise their faith.
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Permission from the local bishop
If you are a Catholic planning to marry a non-Catholic, you will need to seek permission from your local bishop for the marriage to occur. This permission is known as a "dispensation from disparity of cult". The priest will apply for the dispensation for you, and you will not need to do anything extra for it. However, you will still need to go through the full Catholic marriage preparation process.
If you are marrying a non-Catholic Christian, the Catholic Church recognises this as a valid sacrament of marriage. In this case, consent from the diocesan bishop must be obtained, and this is termed "dispensation to enter into a mixed marriage". The priest must receive this dispensation in writing from the bishop. This dispensation is always given as long as the Catholic has agreed to keep practising the Catholic faith and has promised to raise their children as Catholics.
If you are marrying a non-baptised person, you will need to obtain a "Disparity of Worship" dispensation from your bishop. Your non-Catholic fiancé will be invited to explore joining the Church and will be asked to begin the RCIA process to enter into communion with Christ and the Church.
If you are marrying someone who is not Catholic, your local bishop may give permission for you to get married in a non-Catholic church, but it must still be a church (a sacred space). The Catholic Church tries its best to accommodate mixed marriages and bless them.
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Raising children as Catholics
In the past, the Catholic Church required that both parents promise to raise their children as Catholics. However, this policy was changed in the 1960s. Now, only the Catholic partner is required to sign a statement promising to "'do all in my power' to share my faith with our children by having them baptized and raised as Catholics". The non-Catholic partner is not required to make any promises regarding the children's religious upbringing and both partners are encouraged to discuss their religious differences and come to a decision together.
Despite this change in policy, many Catholic parents still strive to raise their children as practising Catholics. A recent study found that only 15% of children raised in Catholic homes will grow up to be faithful Catholic adults. So, what are the practices of parents who successfully raise children to be practising Catholic adults?
The study, titled "Future Faithful Families Project", found that children who grow up in a warm and affectionate home—spending time with their family in fun, prayer, and service to others—are more likely to remain practising Catholics. The researchers identified "patterns of association" that were common among families that successfully raised Catholic children. These included regular Mass attendance, Catholic education, youth ministry, and parish involvement. However, these practices were seen as secondary to the way the family lived their faith at home.
Some specific practices that were mentioned included family prayer times, usually in the morning, before meals, and/or at bedtime; active involvement in charitable service to others, such as hosting immigrants or doing community service projects; and family discussions about budgeting and sacrificing to give to those in need.
Other suggestions for raising children as Catholics include creating a warm and affectionate home environment, being involved in your child's religious education, and incorporating Catholic traditions and rituals into your daily life, such as using incense and holy water, going to Confession, and praying the Rosary.
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Validity of marriage
The Catholic Church has requirements that must be met for a marriage to be considered valid in the eyes of the Church. A valid Catholic marriage results from four elements:
- The spouses are free to marry
- They freely exchange their consent
- In consenting to marry, they have the intention to marry for life, to be faithful to one another and be open to children
- Their consent is given in the canonical form, i.e., in the presence of two witnesses and before a properly authorized church minister
The Catholic Church also recognizes as sacramental, marriages between two baptized non-Catholic Christians, as well as marriages between baptized non-Catholic Christians and Catholic Christians. In the latter case, consent from the diocesan bishop must be obtained, with this termed "dispensation to enter into a mixed marriage". Marriages between two non-Christians or between a Catholic Christian and a non-Christian are recognized by the Church, but they are not considered to be sacramental. In such cases, the Catholic Christian must seek permission from the bishop for the marriage to occur, and this permission is called a "dispensation from disparity of cult".
If a Catholic has been married outside of the Church, the Church invites them to participate fully in the sacramental life of the Church through convalidation. In the simplest terms, if a Catholic wishes to marry in the Church when there has been a previous marriage for either party, the partner in the earlier union must have died or the Church must have issued a declaration of nullity (frequently called an annulment) of the previous marriage.
In the case of a Catholic marrying a non-Catholic, the non-Catholic spouse does not have to promise to have the children raised Catholic. However, the Catholic spouse must promise to do all that they can to have the children baptized and raised in the Catholic faith.
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Marriage preparation
Marriage is a sacrament in the Catholic Church, and the Church wants couples to be well-prepared. Marriage preparation programs take different forms, including weekend retreats, matching with a "sponsor couple", or participating in a series of marriage preparation classes. The Church encourages couples to invest time and energy into preparing for their married life together.
Couples should contact their parish priest at least six months before their wedding date to begin the marriage preparation process. Some churches may require a longer preparation period. The Church provides classes several months before marriage to help participants inform their consent. During this time, the would-be spouses can be confirmed if they have not received confirmation already.
For a Catholic marriage to be considered valid by the Church, four elements are required:
- The spouses are free to marry
- They freely exchange their consent
- They intend to marry for life, be faithful, and be open to children
- Their consent is given in the presence of two witnesses and before a properly authorized Church minister
If a Catholic wishes to marry a non-Catholic Christian, they must obtain "permission to enter into a mixed marriage" from the diocesan bishop. If the non-Catholic spouse is not a Christian, the permission is called a "dispensation from disparity of cult". The non-Catholic spouse does not need to promise to raise any children in the Catholic faith, but the Catholic spouse must promise to do what they can to baptize and raise the children Catholic.
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Frequently asked questions
No, you can marry a non-Catholic, but it is only tolerated by the Church and not encouraged. If you marry a non-Catholic Christian, it is considered a sacramental marriage. If you marry a non-Christian, it is not considered a sacramental marriage, and you must seek permission from the bishop for the marriage to occur.
A mixed marriage is a Catholic/non-Catholic wedding. If the non-Catholic is a baptised Christian, it is a sacramental marriage. If the non-Catholic is not a baptised Christian, it is a non-sacramental marriage.
You must seek permission from the bishop for the marriage to occur. The priest must receive a special dispensation in writing from the bishop. The priest must also meet with the couple to help them understand the spiritual importance of matrimony.
In a sacramental marriage, the non-Catholic is a baptised Christian. In a non-sacramental marriage, the non-Catholic is not a baptised Christian.
